By Ewa Frydel, Owner

Companionship is one of the most important relationships we can have in life. It can promote more joy, gratitude and longevity.

Let's consider how to develop companionship with and for your senior loved one.

You can frequently host social events between family and friends. Many families wait until birthdays and the holidays to get together, but there's no reason why you can't unite more often.

How to Become Friends with Your Mom and Dad

Meet Up Often

We've all felt blues after a vacation or time spent with loved ones is over. This may be more pronounced in your aging loved one. One of the best ways to beat these blues is to already set in place another time to meet up again soon. Give your senior something to look forward to, and often.

Soak Up Nature

Spend time outdoors and get a little sunshine with your mom or dad. Being cooped up may help your loved one feel safe but feelings of isolation and loneliness can put your senior at greater risk for dementia.

Arrange daily or weekly outings with your loved one in need. Go for a walk and breathe in some fresh air. Have a chat at a park and simply reminisce. Nature is a wonderfully healing part of life.

Learn a New Skill Together

If you or your children have been getting into a new hobby, ask your loved one to be a part of it. If not your own hobby, maybe they have one already!

Could your parent be interested in teaching you and your children their very own hobby or skill? Start a new tradition! Create and learn together to keep your hobbies within the family for generations to come, and your mind sharp.

Join the Community

If you're unable to make these outings yourself, you can arrange for transportation and get your senior to a social event in the community. Check out local churches, volunteerism, senior centers or other venues for ideas.

This is a great opportunity for your loved one to make new friends. If you're not able to participate in most of these tips, consider a caregiver.

Hire a Caregiver, Too

Caregivers offer companionship above any other task. Their role isn't just about meal prepping, hygienic care and medication reminders. They make great social companions, too.

If you are able to participate in most of these tips, then having additional companionship with a caregiver is even better! Your mom and dad can have much companionship and feel fulfilled in their social life.

It just takes a little effort on your end to make it so, but within time you'll also feel equally satisfied that you are spending more time together.

It's a win-win! Increase your longevity and happiness all around.

If you have questions about companionship or would like more tips, contact us.

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Legal Disclaimer
This blog provides general information and discussions about building a companionship with your elderly parent and should not be construed as medical advice.